Recognize Game, Respect Reality, And Play To Win
See the game for what it is. Not just game with women… Women are a small piece of the puzzle. I mean the game of life. By recognizing game I mean recognizing reality. The way things really are. And...
View ArticleHow To Make Progress: The 4 Crucial Keys You Need To Know
Progress is important not just for what you get at the end. Progress is crucial for achieving your health, wealth, relationships, and lifestyle goals. But more importantly, progress itself makes you...
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How To Avoid The Elvis Example
Elvis had it all, the looks, the charm, the talent, the women, the career – everything a man could want. He should have been happy… Yet he eventually turned to drugs and food just to get through the...
View ArticleHow To Handle Uncertainty As An Entrepreneur
In one of my recent YouTube videos, Rohit asked if I could do a vid on how to handle uncertainty as an entrepreneur. He said he had quit 2 businesses and is on his 3rd business, is feeling uncertain,...
View ArticleHow To Rent The Right Condo Or Apartment
Renting the right condo is not as easy as it seems. I’ve made some mistakes on the list in the past, and some in the present. There are a lot little things you need to account for that most guys don’t...
View ArticleHow To Be More Confident
Confidence as defined by the dictionary is: “A feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities” Another definition, a better definition, and the one I use…...
View ArticleThe Map Is Not The Territory…
The map is not the territory, but it will get you where you want to go. This is a phrase you might have heard if you’ve studied NLP. The original metaphor comes from the Copenhagen Interpretation by...
View ArticleWhy You Need To Take Total Responsibility For Your Life
You need to take total responsibility for your life because when you don’t, you assume the role of victim. You’re a victim when your narrative is built around bad things that other people did to you...
View ArticleThe Gift And The Curse Of Having Potential
A lot of people talk about the importance of living up to your potential… But what does it actually mean? Why is it so important? How do you know how much potential? What is the price to pay for not...
View ArticleWhy You Need To Protect Your Reputation With Your Life
If I could define a man in one word it’s character. Before all the external trappings of success, being a man is about character. Because character is what gets you the things you want in life. And...
View ArticleWhy You NEED To Stop Smoking Weed (Especially If You’re 18-25)
Weed is a big problem for a lot of guys. It definitely was for me at 20 when I was smoking 7 joints a day. Check out the video and audio below to hear about my experiences with weed, what weed does to...
View ArticleWhy You NEED To Avoid Divorce Like The Plague
In 2012, when I was 30, I wrote an article on why you shouldn’t get married. I decided to have another look at the article as I’m closing in on 36 and I still agree with everything I wrote. I might...
View ArticleShould You Have Kids? My Thoughts On Having Children
As of June this year I’ll be 36 or 4 years away from 40. At this point in my life, the idea of having a family is something I’ve put a lot of thought into. Unfortunately, I don’t have too many people...
View ArticleWhy You Need To Stop Believing In Other People’s Dreams And Start Building Yours
Unless you have ownership it’s not your dream – full stop, end of discussion. That company, that political movement, that sports team – none of those are yours. For it to be your dream, you have to...
View ArticleHow To Get What You Want By Giving Up Being Right
In the game of life you either play or you get played. There is no sitting on the sidelines. I’d rather play and play to win. The metric for defining a win is joy and he who has the most joy wins. And...
View ArticleHow To Prevent Depression Through Purpose, Potential, Passion And Eustress
Money either solves or helps solve the majority of your problems. But money isn’t enough, and neither is women or any of the other trappings of success. Don’t get me wrong, having the good things in...
View ArticleDo You Need To Spend Money To Make Money?
One the most common questions in business is do you need to spend money to make money? The short answer is no. Not to say that spending money or even debt can’t be useful, spending money correctly...
View ArticleWhy Freedom Is Overrated And How To Make Freedom Work For You
If you’ve been reading my stuff for a while this post might come as a surprise… Because freedom has been one of the core values of RLD since the beginning of this site. And many of the strategies I’ve...
View ArticleWhy You Should Be A Boss Player Not A Playboy
In this video and audio I bread down why it’s better to think of yourself as a boss player in the game of life as your primary identity as opposed to a playboy who is good with women. Not that I don’t...
View ArticleHow To Get From Point A To Point B
Think of your mission or any major goal you want to accomplish as a straight line. Point A is where you are right now and Point B is where you want to go. Just like in sales or any type of close, the...
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