Every aspiring player wants to know how to get laid online. I’ve been using Ok Cupid off and on for 8 years and I think it’s the best dating site for getting laid with the exception of Tinder (to find out how to get how to dominate Tinder you can check out my book How To Get Laid On Tinder here). Unlike Plenty Of Fish, Ok Cupid won’t punish you for looking for casual sex and has the best matching system available, based primarily around self reported questions.

Ok Cupid also doesn’t use automatic age limit filters or scan heavily for copy and paste messages. When searching for girls Ok Cupid has great criteria for sorting, the only downside being to search by body type you need to be a paid member. I’ve used several different styles of profiles, from suited up and looking for a girlfriend, to the purely sexual one outlined in this article.

My primary goal with this profile was to find DTF girls who were ready to fuck on the first date as opposed to girls who have to be “converted”, similar to the Tinder strategy I ran. If you’re serious about learning how to get laid consistently, that should be your goal too, as opposed to getting a bunch of dates that go nowhere. The experiment was extremely successful to the point of exhaustion.

With that said, I just want to make sure you know that I don’t advocate having a ton of casual sex all the time is the best way to spend your life. Banging lots of random girls is fun for a while but the novelty and lack of emotional connection quickly wears off. If you’re new to the game or just out of a relationship you can go hard, just don’t get stuck in the trap of devoting your life to running through girls you don’t care about, moderation is key.

How To Get Laid On Ok Cupid

• Guys living In a major city, I live in Toronto which has approximately 5 million people
• Guys with decent to better looks and style who are in good physical shape, you should be a 7 or up
• With that said even if you’re not facially the most attractive guy, being fit goes a long way and there is no reason you shouldn’t be in shape
• Girls online who are dtf online have their pick of guys, unfortunately 95% of your success is going to be based on your pictures, girls are extremely superficial online

• You should be messaging women within ten years of your age and within two points of your rating, eg. if you’re a 28-year-old and you’re a 7, you should message girls from 18 to 28 ranging in looks from 7 to 9
• That’s not to say you can’t message anyone you want its just to manage your expectations, the farther away from your age and rating the less probability you will have of getting a response from the woman
• Start with the search ordered by online now and match percentage which will list in descending order any filters that are important to you (unfortunately you can’t filter by body type unless you upgrade to a paid membership which is not worth it), I wouldn’t go any lower than a 70% match
• Its important shes online now because girls who are dtf get tons of messages and its easy for yours to get lost in the crowd
• I give my search range 25km to include girls in the suburbs, that might seem far but plenty of girls are willing to come downtown when they’re dtf
• For this profile I messaged about 30 girls a day, Ideally you want to use your laptop for multiple tabs but you can multitask using the Ok Cupid app at your wage slave cell to message new girls and coordinate with ones who responded
• Your prime results will be the first two weeks as you’ll have the best matched girls and a fresh dating pool, eventually the same girls will keep showing up so you might have to dig deeper into girls who have been online in the last week or last month

• Open with “hey hows it going” using copy and paste , this is low investment and allows you to blitz quickly, the response rate will be lower on this but girls who are dtf and like your pics will respond
• Follow up by asking her questions about her weekend, her profile, nothing fancy necessary
• Send 3 to 5 fluff messages back and forth asking her to meet up, say “cool, I’d like to grab a coffee with you, how does your schedule look this week?”
• If a woman stops responding (which is common) you can either delete her messages (advised), or re initiate a few days later and repeat, if she still isn’t meeting up then delete her messages, it’s not going to happen
• If she says yes then schedule a time that works for you at a coffee shop by your place (some guys prefer drinks but I like to be dead sober when I fuck to give a top notch cardio performance, plus its cheaper), say “Great, x night works for me, why don’t you meet me at x coffee shop for 8”, once she confirms say “great, see you then”
• Always meet at a coffee shop/bar/lounge within a few minutes of your place I never meet a woman across town because woman flake, sometimes without telling you, then you’ll have wasted your time and if she does show up you won’t be able to take her home quickly
• If she balks at the place or tries to get you to come to her, she is going to be difficult and might very well flake, I will hold my ground and say ” I like my plan better, its right next to my place that way if we have chemistry I can take you home and have my way with you :)”, this lets her know you’re not fucking around and she can take it or leave it, if she agrees then she knows sex is happening, if she still won’t come to you then delete her
• Once she confirms, get her number, say “perfect, here’s my number, why don’t you give me yours”, its good to have the number, not all girls use the app and you might have to call her to give her directions, most girls couldn’t find the broadside of a barn
• Its super important to get a girl to meet up within a week of asking her, ideally within a few days, the longer you go without meeting up the less your chances are
• The reason following these steps is crucial is 95% of girls online are timewasters, happy to message you and entertain themselves but go radio silent at the idea of meeting up or flake on a whim, for your sanity you need to be ruthless with this shit

• Messages Sent: 900 (approximately)
• Response rate from first message: 15% ( a fair bit lower than my previous profiles)
• Quality Of Girls: 6/10 – 8/10
• First Dates: 10
• Lays: 9
• Lay Rate: 1% (1 lay per 100 messages)
• First Date Close Rate: 90% (much higher than my more traditional profiles, this is the key metric)
• Approximately 10 quickmatches a week (quickmatch is a feature where users can rate you, you get a message when you’re rated 4 stars or more)
• Your response rate will definitely be lower from this method primarily because it’s a sexual profile with casual openers but the speed and close rate make it very efficient

Lay Example

• I checked out this girl, as you can see we had an 87% match range which is pretty high, meaning she is primarily looking for sex
• Her lead picture was decent but the sheer shirt with her bra showing did it for me
• Once I sent her my standard opening message, with some light improv on her user name I got a pretty quick response with good input, she answered my question then asked me two of her own, the second one being the one to notice with her asking me where in the city I was, this means she’s already considering meeting up with me
• We fluff back and forth for a few messages before I ask her for coffee within the next week following my standard protocol of pitching the meet after 3-5 messages
• I get a great response with her asking me for a drink tonight, I know now she is horny and dtf tonight, I pitch the time and place immediately, conveniently a lounge 15 seconds from my apartment
• She gives me points for being the right amount of decisive because she’s probably used to guys who are either indecisive or too aggressive
• In the same message she gives me a test by asking me what I look like with my clothes on, I crush it by coming back with a cocky answer saying handsome, notice how she doesn’t confirm the date until I pass the test
• She then qualifies herself saying her hair is a bit curlier and shorter so I wouldn’t be disappointed, I could be reading into too much into it but judging by her other responses she seemed to put pretty high value on me which means I must have fit her type pretty well
• You can see she was straight business from the get go which is typical of masculine acting women, they also generally have a higher sex drive then submissives
• We vibed, had a few drinks, found out she had recently gotten out of a 10 year marriage and was fucking her back at my place within 45 minutes, check out the screenshots below:

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