In post-feminist North America marriage has become a dangerous proposition for guys. With divorce rates at all time highs you’re looking at a 50% chance of getting your ass handed to you by the courts in a soul-crushing divorce. That means heartbreak, alimony, child support and starting over at 50 in a studio apartment.
Now that’s not to say marriage was always a great deal for men, it wasn’t. Marriage was designed by alpha males to keep beta males from killing each other. As long as they were good serfs they got access to sex, food and family while the elites fucked harems of teenage girls.
Marriage is a business contract centered around sexual repression with the sole purpose of providing a stable family unit. Until the 1960’s that unit was the backbone of society. That stable unit allowed humans to dominate an entire planet.
Marriage might have meant more responsibility but at least you had dinner waiting for you at home and a wife taking care of the kids. Now you have two overworked, tired, run-down slaves with neither party wanting to submit to the other.
Infidelity is at an all time high and one in two families is destroyed by divorce. Marriage in North America is very risky indeed, here are the 7 major reasons not to get married:
7 Reasons Not To Get Married
1) Divorce
When you don’t get married you never have to go through a divorce. Divorce is rated more stressful than losing a loved one. Over 50% Of Marriages end in divorce, that means you have a coinflip chance of a taking a mid-life assfucking.
2) Finances
Half of your assets, alimony and child support are on the line if the marriage fails. How can any man who values his freedom take that kind of risk?
3) Weddings
Weddings aren’t for you, you’re an accesssory. They’re a victory dance for the bride for finding someone to take care of her and her future kids. The average wedding takes over a year to plan and costs over $27, 000, money you could have spent on a business to liberate yourself from wage slavery.
4) Friction
Joint bank accounts, joint tax filings, joint properties, lawyer fees, paperwork, in short lots of fucking headaches to deal with if (when) you separate.
5) Outdated
There is nothing you can get from a marriage that you can’t get from a girlfriend. Is it better to raise a kid in a traditional marriage? Absolutely, but the traditional marriage is dead so that question is irrelevant.
One in two couples split, couples that would have been much better off raising the kid separately under a co-parenting arrangment from the start. If you really want to do marriage properly you need to find a traditional girl in a traditional country.
6) Vows
In marriage you vow to commit to one women no matter how bad her behavior for the rest of your life. Would you even vow to buy a car for the rest of your life no matter how poor its performance was? Of course not, and a car is a much less important decision than a wife.
Women live and die by there emotions, a vow from them means nothing, they will always have an emotional justification for ending things. In traditional times, shame and financial reliance kept women from leaving, now there is nothing stopping them from getting a YOLO divorce while taking half your shit. Not to say women are all to blame, vows mean you have to follow them as well, can you really vow you’ll never hook up with another woman again? That’s a serious vow.
7) Sex
Your wife is now your only sexual partner and controls if and how frequently you have sex. She has a monopoly on your penis. In traditional times sex was written into the marriage contract, because a marriage is just that, a business contract.
In traditional times the deal was she gives you sex, cooks, cleans and takes care of the kids while you provide for her and steer the ship. Nowadays all those incentives have been removed by cultural marxism. If she doesn’t want to fuck you, you won’t have sex again without cheating or getting a divorce. She can now use sex as a weapon and put you on a rationing system.
Conclusions
Getting married in a western country is a minefield. Now I know a lot of you guys don’t want to bang strangers forever and eventually want to raise a family, and I might too but you can’t do that in North America. It is way to dangerous.
If you’re really serious about marriage and kids you’ve got to find a traditional girl, from a traditional family in a traditional country. That is the tried and true system that’s worked for thousands of years. You can choose to disregard my advice, but don’t say you weren’t warned.
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